About Bi Design

What We Are

Most lifestyle spaces were built around a familiar script.

The straight man. The bisexual woman. The performance of openness. These spaces exist, there are plenty of them, and they serve the people who belong there.

Bi Design was built for the people those rooms leave out.

This is a private club for couples where the man is bisexual. Not bi-curious. Not situationally flexible. Bisexual — in the full, honest sense of that word. The women here are straight, bisexual, or somewhere between. The only thing we ask of everyone, regardless of identity, is that they show up exactly as they are.

Male bisexuality is not a footnote here. It is the premise of the room.

What We Believe

At Bi Design, male bisexuality is not hidden, tolerated, or treated as a complication. It is understood, welcomed, and part of the design of the room.

Men in attendance are expected to be bisexual, fluid, or genuinely open to male connection. Couples come here because they want a space where that dynamic is normal — respected and present, not pushed to the margins.

When you're here, labels matter less than honesty. Chemistry, consent, and mutual respect are what we ask of every person in the room. The rest takes care of itself.

Who Attends

Curated, always. Never open.

Couples are the foundation. Every couple applies together, interviews together, and joins as a unit. Singles may attend — but only when sponsored by a member couple who vouches for them and brings them in.

Every application is reviewed personally. We move slowly and deliberately, because the quality of the room is the entire point. We would rather have twelve people who belong here than sixty who don't.